He’s got a nice car and he dresses great. He seems to have it all together. How many times have you met someone only to find out he wasn’t the person you thought he was? Can you tell when men are not who they seem to be? Here are five ways you can tell that he is most likely smoke and mirrors.
Smoke and Mirrors Baby
by Tanjuria Willis on April 6, 2011 in Connect Buzz, It's Debatable, Relationships
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Never considered the “Name Change” one! Very true!
Any advise for the man that shows up in your life almost like a breath of fresh air “a angel only to find out his big heart, helpful ways”, and on a mission to serve others has all evolved from his dysfunctional past. This knowledge of his past only makes him seem so together and so strong. “you think to yourself this is a testament that people can change at any age,” and with that thought you believe if he conquered all those monsters wow he must have faith and a great vision of his future. Unfortunately as reality rears its truth you learn he’s the laziest man on earth….does not know how to handle his own finances, lives with all the stories of his past which he needs to share over and over. Tomorrow is the day for everything that is promised. He’s happy to lay on the couch with his TV shows of intervention, nascar, inmates behind locked doors shows 24/7. He has a great job but here too does the least possible and takes many mental health days off and goes in late and comes home early. What is this???? Who is this??? He claims he loves me and always comes home, which just annoys me. He attends all his support meetings and after comes home to a” hush hush” beer and smoke??? kept as a secret. p.s. in 2 yrs is has vacuumed once and takes out the trash but questions why is he the only one that does this… i refuse to do his laundry and don’t. !!! Help